Daruma Dolls: Can I Keep Mine After my Goal is Reached?

What do you do with a Daruma after you've achieved your goal and colored the second eye? It's a good question, because there is indeed a protocol for daruma, and for good luck charms in general, and a daruma doll offers itself as a wonderful window onto interesting aspects of traditional Japanese culture.  But at the same time, as you'll see, there's no need to feel compelled to do any particular thing, and the key is to act according to your own feelings.

Daruma dolls are associated with New Year’s in Japan and are usually bought at this time. 12 months later at the start of the new year they’re taken to a temple where they’re ceremonially burned in a ceremony called Daruma Kuyou, and a new one is bought. So If you happen to live near a Buddhist temple that has such an event and you are so inclined, you might take advantage of it. This is a sort of memorial service that offers a chance to reflect on the year that just ended and express gratitude for the good things it brought. It’s a poignant way to usher in a new year of possibilities, and perhaps to buy a new daruma doll, too! As with other Japanese charms, simply throwing it in the trash is inappropriate.

But having said this, parting with your daruma doll is only an option, not a requirement. The subject of dolls in this context brings hina dolls to my mind as a contrast. Hina ningyo are the set of dolls including an emperor and empress and their court that are displayed at home by families with daughters for Girls' Day, which is celebrated on March 3rd. As lovely as the display is, you’ll be very challenged to find any still out after March 4th, as according to tradition, families that don’t put the dolls back in their storage boxes by the 4th risk late marriages for their daughters!

Daruma dolls don't come with any such caveat and can be kept and displayed indefinitely, if you so choose. One cozy little restaurant that I frequent has one rather large daruma on a shelf on permanent display for each year they’ve been open. It’s a fun way for them to commemorate their years in business and show appreciation to their customers for their shop’s longevity. Obviously they have no fear of incurring bad luck by keeping their menagerie! Now that they’ve been in business for a dozen years or so, they have quite an impressive row of daruma dolls standing sentinel. It won’t be long before they need another shelf!

When we visited Kyoto's Daruma-dera recently, which is a temple here known for its collection of over 8,000 daruma dolls, the priest's wife mentioned one parishioner who kept the same daruma doll for some 30 years, not wanting to part with it. In the end, it was placed in his coffin before his cremation. This underscored for us her belief that there are no hard and fast rules with this, and the story and the beautiful way in which she took the time to relate it to us gave me a deep sense of her focus on the spirit that the dolls are meant to convey rather than details.

So if you prefer to hang onto your daruma after a year has passed, you should by all means do that. One thing to remember is this-display your daruma doll in a place where you can see him, so that you’ll be reminded to take steps, however small, toward the goal you had in mind when you gave him his first eye.  He will serve as a gentle reminder of the principles that bring happiness, which is much more valuable than any luck. This is really where the Daruma’s true power lies, after all.

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Daruma Dolls: History and Meaning

Daruma Dolls and Zen

What is a daruma doll? It's a representation of the Buddhist monk Bohidharma, who lived in the 5th or 6th century. Bodhidharma is recognized as the founder of the zen sect of Buddhism. Only the daruma doll's face is visible, the rest of the figure resembles a priest's robe.

Zen Buddhism has garnered attention in the west as a means to cultivate mindfulness. Formal sitting meditation is but one aspect of this training. In general, it promotes a greater awareness of what's going on around you, of the reality that exists outside of ourselves and the narrative that our thoughts create, and the resulting lenses that we see the world through.

In this spirit of seeing what is in front of us, I'd like to offer up a simple exercise-take a moment to really look at a daruma! It occurred to me in writing this that though I have seen hundreds of daruma over the decades of living here in Kyoto, if asked to make a cursory drawing of his face from memory or describe it, I would have little confidence in my ability to recall anything clearly aside from his eyes and his robe!

Facial Features

Daruma dolls made in the traditional way feature a face framed by ample eyebrows and a beard. There's an understated line representing his mouth that gives him a stoic look, and his robe is embellished with bold but simple brush strokes, often in gold.

I've read that if you look carefully at his stylized facial hair you'll find cranes in his eyebrows and turtle shells on his cheeks. That very well may be, and I went looking in his eyebrows for cranes and found them, one on each side-then I found others! So I ended up wondering what I was seeing and what I was imagining! Maybe I've found a new use for daruma dolls-as rorschach tests!

Cranes and turtles are both symbols of longevity in Japan, with the crane said to live 1000 years and the turtle 10,000 years. This makes them very common symbols in Japanese art, especially in connection with auspicious occasions like weddings. One furoshiki in my shop in fact features a crane and turtle together, in a traditional pose with the crane standing on the turtle's back.

Meaning

Take a look at a daruma doll-what do you see? It's believed that daruma dolls were introduced in the 1700's by a priest at a temple in order to satisfy his parishioners' desire for new charms. As a talisman, there are different ways to look at a daruma. Some might color in an eye and make a wish in the same way you'd make a wish when blowing out the candles of a birthday cake. I can't remember being disappointed when such a wish didn't come true, because I never even deeply thought about what I would wish for before the cake was set in front of me, and I knew that I wasn't committing myself to doing anything to help to make the wish come true.

Personally, I think that having a daruma doll can be a great way to buoy yourself up when you're striving to attain some goal that you've chosen thoughtfully and are committed to working toward attaining. The reason for this lies in the doll's association with an often used Japanese proverb, 'nana korobi ya oki' which translates as 'Get knocked down seven times, get up eight.'

This saying has its roots in zen and quite pithily conveys the essence of that Buddhist sect in its message of perseverance in the face of adversity and resilience, and a stoic commitment to seeing something through. This dedication infers a focus on the present moment and what we can make of it.

Poke a daruma doll and you'll see why it has become so associated with this saying. Though it might look unstable at first glance and easy to topple, it comes right back up. You can't keep it down. I'm about to date myself and American pop culture references can't do justice to the wisdom and beauty of the expression above. But it does somehow take me back to a TV commercial that I must have seen a thousand times in the 70's......weebles wobble but they don't fall down!

I've taken part in some meditation sessions and at times a priest would circulate among us 'sitters' and stop at times to hit someone on the shoulder with a piece of wood. It wasn't hard enough to hurt, but it certainly does tend to bring you back to the moment!

Daruma dolls are very useful for goal setting and achievement as reminders of the goal we've set for ourselves. We take the time to clarify the goal and to imagine achieving it when we color in the first eye, and put the daruma doll in a place where it can be seen(and where it can see us!). Over the next year, it serves as a physical manifestation of the commitment felt on that day when a pupil was drawn in that blank space where eyes should be.

Let the daruma doll remind you of that as you use your days to challenge yourself by devoting time and effort to your goal, no matter how uphill the process feels at times. And just remember that for better or worse you won't be pulled back to your focus with a sudden whack on your shoulder, but with a watchful eye!

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Daruma Dolls: Which Eye First?

It’s only after you've already bought a daruma doll and are gazing at its curious countenance while cradling it in one palm that you're likely to consider this question.

'Which daruma doll eye should I color first?' Daruma are sold without eyes being painted on them, and the pupils are filled in by the owner. The first pupil is drawn when you decide on the goal you want to enlist the doll's help in attaining, and the other gets filled in at some point during the next 12 months when you've reached it.

Many sources say that you should color the left eye first. And by this, by the way, they mean the doll's left eye, not the eye that is on your left as you face him. Knowing this important detail will certainly clarify things if you saw such advice online and were wondering whose left it was referring to!

But now that I’ve cleared that up, I’m going to say something that makes it moot. Because in fact, it doesn’t matter which eye you color when you make your wish or goal.

Even though I’ve lived in Japan since 1997 and have colored my share of daruma doll eyes, I wasn’t really sure which pupil should be filled in first until I started writing this article, as I assumed there was a right and a wrong way to do this and I'd forgotten which eye I'd chosen in the not so recent past!

For the answer, I went straight to the horse’s mouth. In this case, since my daruma doll itself was mum on the subject, that means I checked with an organization of daruma doll makers called Gunma Daruma Doll Manufacturers’ Cooperative Union. Gunma is a prefecture that includes Takasaki City, where about 80% of Japan’s daruma dolls are made. On their website the association notes the prevailing advice about the left eye, but goes on to refute it by saying that ‘there is no correct order of painting eyes on a daruma doll.’

So why is it mentioned in so many places that a certain eye should be colored first? When it comes to getting assistance of the kind that the daruma doll is said to offer, there are certain prescribed steps that must be taken, to be sure. But it seems to me that there’s also a natural tendency to think that the more steps that are involved and the more specific they are, the better the chance of a positive outcome! And then there’s the cultural predilection for process in Japan. The way something is done often seems to rival the result itself in importance.


So there you have it. Gunma Prefecture itself also has a website by the way, which is a more general resource that covers a plethora of topics related to goings on all over the prefecture, with a mention included about the daruma doll makers in Takasaki City. Interestingly, the writers of this Gunma Prefecture site, despite their proximity to the center of Japan's daruma doll production, seem to have accepted conventional wisdom because they mention that when a wish or goal decided on, the left eye is colored in!

But that just goes to show how hard it can be to pin down information these days when we have so many resources to choose from on the web! I’m still going with the makers’ association’s site. It seems to me that if those folks don’t know what they’re talking about, I think we really are out of luck!

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Sen, The Japanese Princess

Do you want to travel in Japan one day to view the beautiful places like rivers, lakes, the cherry blossom trees every summer or perhaps eat good food? Most people want to travel to experience these things, but what you do not know is that there is a place in Kyoto that tourists like to visit apart from all mentioned. It is the grave of the late Princess Sen. She played a big role in her family’s success back then. In this article, we will travel back in time to learn more about why her grave is a tourist spot in Kyoto. Princess Sen’s grandfather is Tokugawa Ieyasu, founder of the Tokugawa Shogunate which were Jodo sector believers. Her remains lie in Kyoto in the Chionin temple. Chionin temple is known as the leader of the Pure Land or what others call “Jodo”.

Perhaps one day, if you really decide to make a list of nice places in Japan for you to visit, we have compiled some of the interesting stories about the late princess. If you have more ideas on who she is, you will likely become more interested to see her sleeping place.

The Life of Princess Sen

She was the first daughter of Tokugawa Hidetada and was born beautifully in the year 1597. Princess Sen or “Senhime” lived her life for the succession of her family. She grew up to be a very obedient girl, even if it led to a marriage at the age of 7 years old only. Even if it was hard for her, or perhaps for everyone her age to be wed, she did everything she can to help her family. The marriage was a part of political arrangement. She was then sent to Osaka Castle which is very far away from her hometown Edo. Everything about her marriage was arrange by her father. For the sake of peace between Tokugawa and Toyotami families, she sacrificed herself. Though apparently, she wasn’t uncomfortable, she had to endure everything for the sake of the nation. Her situation was not easy because she lived a life like of a hostage.

Princess Sen’s Escape and Marriage

Time passed by for princess Sen. She was 18 years old back then in the year 1615 when families started clashing again. It was summer when another war broke out in Osaka when the Tokugawas won the war. During those difficult times, the princess still stayed with her husband. It was not long when Shogun Ieyasu finally rescued her to live with them again. She tried her best to convince Ieyasu to forgive her husband, but to no avail. The princess’ saviour, Sakazaki Naomori has asked her to marry him. She did not love him, and finally had the chance to decide for herself for the first time. She married Honda Tadatoki and lived in Himeji Castle with him. Her happiness was unlimited during their bond. Their happy marriage led to having two children: princess Katsu and prince Kochiyo. Unfortunately, her luck didn’t seem to last. At the age of 25 years old, her son died followed by the death of her husband from tuberculosis.

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The Kyoto Kouyou Experience

The Kouyou Experience in Kyoto

One of the best views in Japan is during the autumn season. The notable Kyoto leaves that fall in a bright red, orange, brown and yellow is such a charming display, locals call it the “Kouyou” season. In this particular season, people are amazed with such beauty of the leaves that changes colors depending on the temperature, specifically during autumn up to winter. It’s spectacular and quite notable how the leaves change their color from green to red, yellow to brown and some other leaves turn to red. Of course, the color depends on the specie of the tree and the environment. But sadly, the color quality of the leaves change thanks to typhoons during the summer or fall.

The Beauty of Kouyou

The world-famous Kouyou in Japan is not only popular in their country but also with foreigners. Many people want to visit Japan just to witness this breathtaking beauty of nature. Visitors take time to visit shrines not only because of their rich culture, but also to see its gardens in Tokyo. Visitors, most of the time like to see shrines in Tokyo during fall season because of its rich culture and remarkable beauty. People enjoy the Japanese culture and the view, that alone makes their vacation stay extraordinary. Places like these have become a great tourist spot in Japan, one of the many reasons why it is being protected.

There is also what they call Kiyomizu temple, a tourist spot in Kyoto. It is famed for its majestic red leaves during the evening when they are lit up. Tourists consider this as an extraordinary experience. In Arashiyama district, people can enjoy trolling in the west side to watch the breathtaking nature. To be able to witness this amazing view, try to visit Kyoto. The Kouyou view will never disappoint you.

Autumn Leaf Types

Momiji and Kaede are the two terms locals are using referring to maple tree family species. These trees produce vibrant red colors during fall season.

Momiji or Japanese maple tree

Japan has a native maple tree called Momiji or Acer Palmatum. As a matter of fact, Kouyou is sometimes read as “Momiji” or Kouyou”. Therefore, Momiji is a great symbol of what they call Kouyou experience in Japan.

Kaede

In Japan, ‘Kaede’ is the common term for maple trees. It can also refer to Momiji. Specifically, Momiji’s leaves are known for their particular structure and appearance. These trees can be distinguished thanks to their small, 5 pointed and sharp leaves. On the contrary, Kaede’s leaves are larger and has a 3 pointed leaf structure.

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Mystery of Maiko

Where to find a Maiko

Looking for a place where you can see a “Maiko?” Gion district is a very popular place to spot a Maiko which is in Kyoto, some call these places “Hanamachi”. You will definitely have a chance to see a Maiko everyday during early in the morning or sometimes late in the evening, that is if you are lucky enough of course. Their beauty is timeless. Such kissable, red vibrant lips and white as snow skin, there’s no way to escape their charm. These traits make men of any age flock around them, regardless of their age. Falling in love with a Maiko is normal in Japan. Who wouldn’t? Many women wants to be an attractive Maiko.

The Reason Why Girls Want to Become a Maiko

There are a lot of TV shows nowadays, even in animes, manga or any famous Japanese shows that showcase the beauty of a Maiko. To be exact, there was once a TV show and the topic is about a little girl, about 15 years of age who wanted to become a Maiko. In that specific program, the girl wanted to live in the mysterious society in a traditional way. She always had this drive and compassion to be a part of something so meaningful, something that has been passed down to the next generations, including her. After that show, I came to a realization point that girls who felt the same way as she did were destined to become a Maiko and live their lives in Hanamachi. At the end of the day, I was overwhelmed and felt happy. The fact that there are still people out there who want to become a part of the a rich tradition is quite moving.

Be a Maiko in a Day

Actually, getting a transformation to be a Maiko for a day is considered as one of the tourist attractions in Kyoto. If you dream of being as pretty as a Maiko, you should definitely visit Kyoto soon! This experience is a remarkable one, thanks to the tradition and culture in Japan that they have taken cared of over the centuries. Imagine being a part of something they have cherished over the years, I personally wonder how cool it would be. In Japan, if your age has reached 16, it is already too late to a Maiko, but if you’re a tourist, you can for a day. It is definitely worth the try.

While many of us are curious about how to become a Maiko, some wonder what a Maiko is and what they do. Maiko actually means “dance child”. It is basically learning how to become a Geisha. After they graduate, their ranks will be higher through a ceremony they called “Erikae”.

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Coffee in Kyoto Japan

Kyoto Coffee

Who does not like sipping a cup of traditional coffee during a stay-cation? Come and take a break for a while and visit coffee shops in Kyoto. If you are planning an Asian visit soon, Kyoto is one of the best places to come by especially when you are fond of coffee. We have gathered some information about the two best coffee shops in Kyoto to suit your taste. We call it here “Kyoto Styled Coffee”.

Ever tried coffee from Ogawa? The inviting and soothing smell will keep you company for a while. Ogawa has 43 branches, so wherever you are in Kyoto, you have access to this fine coffee. This company has selected brews and sell their very own roasted beans at every shop. No need to imagine partnering this yummy drink with cakes and biscuits, they offer these at their shops too! They have homemade and original cupcakes too in each cafes. You will be amazed with their staff’s hospitality when you enter a shop.

Hand and Hand With Society

Apart of all the luscious drinks and cakes available from Kyoto’s Ogawa Coffee Shop, they also offer a seminar or “coffee lecture” to everyone. This coffee lecture is available twice a week for people who wants to learn about it. A professional in coffee is the one conducting the seminar offering ideas on how to make the best coffee using a method called “paper dripping”. Participants are given enough time to individually showcase what they have learned. In return, they get advises from the instructor so they can improve their skills and hopefully perfect the method next time around. Participants’ favorite time is after the session. The coffee they brewed themselves are shared with one another with cakes. Pretty fun, right?

Ogawa’s History

1999 was a lucky year for Mr. and Mrs. Murakami. They have successfully launched their coffee shop business thanks to its popularity. Back then, they were also selling coffee beans for the purposes of having their heavenly coffee tasted by the people. They are not just business people, they have a thriving passion towards coffee. Having their own shop gave them an extraordinary experience. Finally, they were able to put up a cafe with cakes a couple of years ago. As a family, they helped one another to make their dreams come true.

Ogawa’s Iced Coffee

Just like any other coffee shops, Ogawa has a specialization too. They are best known for their original iced coffee made from special coffee beans and good quality water only found in Kyoto. They are using glass bottles instead of plastic ones to avoid bad smell. Though it’s a little expensive, it is definitely worth it.

Special Coffee Beans

The freshest, highest quality of coffee beans are imported to make your day. They have an original way of roasting the beans, the reason why it has a specific aroma. You can also buy coffee beans per gram and have it packed in a special aluminum bag to keep its freshness. And guess what? You can also choose a method to roast your beans, according to your taste.And to take your beans home use a nice furoshiki from Kyoto Collection just like they really do in Japan!

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